Seeing as how my date, on last evening, only went "okay" at best, there is absolutely no reason that I should be posting about Engagement Rings. None! But, before going to see Secretariat we had gone into Barnes & Noble where I came across a magazine ad for CARAT* Jewelry Company. The reason why I'm so very excited about this discovery is that it could very well aid me one day in an idea that I've been fostering for years. Please feel free to use it for yourself, if you'd like.
For years, I've jokingly (?) said that, in lieu of an actual diamond, I will be purchasing a Cubic Zirconia for an engagement ring. Without question, I will be very upfront with my fiancee and let her know about my intentions. I will also let her know that if we make it to our fifth anniversary, then I'll gladly replace the CZ with a real stone. Possibly even adding an additional carat or two as an added bonus for her patience.
For years, I've jokingly (?) said that, in lieu of an actual diamond, I will be purchasing a Cubic Zirconia for an engagement ring. Without question, I will be very upfront with my fiancee and let her know about my intentions. I will also let her know that if we make it to our fifth anniversary, then I'll gladly replace the CZ with a real stone. Possibly even adding an additional carat or two as an added bonus for her patience.
While I consider myself an optimist, I'm also a realist. With the divorce rate being what it is today, the thought of losing a wife AND a ring equal to three month's salary (per DeBeers) leaves me a little skittish. Of course, I have considered that she may feel that things aren't working out, not let me know this, and then choose to stay 5 years and a day -you know, just until the big upgrade takes place, but I'm willing to take that chance.
During these time, more than ever, should marriage still be honestly looked at as a long-term investment (of the heart) or until debt do us part?
During these time, more than ever, should marriage still be honestly looked at as a long-term investment (of the heart) or until debt do us part?
(Image via CARAT website)
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